Nemo on Windows can read extfs partitions better than NTFS plays with Linux. It’s more of a problem with proprietary file systems, not the open source file manager trying it’s best to reverse engineer the protocol.
When I dual booted, I would just share the extfs partition because it worked the best on both systems, once the extfs driver for Windows was installed.
Reminds me of when I aliased ‘man’ to ‘rtfm’